advice for women

when people are mean and begin doing nasty things to u... will u retaliate, or just laugh it off?

try this: at the end of it all, they actually care so much about ruining ur life, that its amazing how their attempts to degrade u serves as a gentle and constant reminder that they see you as a threat, preferably based on a strong sense of jealousy or just pure scorn at how fortunate u are.

surface based things do not affect me at all now. period. since these few minorities are not actually what i consider as even aquintances. oh please, get a life.

evil will only begets evil, so stay in the light - i sound like i'm preaching here, but who gives a damn?

there are 2 kinds of beauties that exists:
1) those who gives a very good first impression but their beauty seems to fade with time (as the chinese saying goes: bu nai kan)
2) those who don't stand out really that much in the first greetings, but seems to exlude some exuberant form of beauty that attracts all with time (nai kan)

to females: which kind would u prefer to be under?

be true to urself, reflect and observe the behaviour u portray to others. most importantly, remember to be a lady n not a wild animal on the loose.

point noted.