twelve nights

oh my, just watched this really weird (certainly unable to pinpoint exactly how romantic though) show on channel 8...

12 nights (starring cecilia chung, nic tse etc)
somebody should write down all the lessons the writers have taught in there... coz it somehow seems very applicable to relationships that everyone is facing...

i feel uneasy after watching that show though unrest in audiences is probably not the main plot and aim of the movie...

main points noted (with much effort):

1) don't care too much for the other, in any case the fire dies (excitement and suspense is key factor)

2) don't seem to be revolving ur whole life ard ur partner (don't be too dependent on his/her existance) eg: wateva u do u'll call, wateva u wan u'll call, wateva happens to u u'll call

3) guys don't restrict your gfs esp dressing-whilst, behaviour etc... let her be herself and don't find little faults to complain about (more u pick on her, more it seems u're irritated with her, more she feels the need to show more concern, more irritated you feel... the cycle goes on)

4) try so very hard to be nonchanlant in relationships towards ur partner... let the other do the work (to be love is better to love)

5) even if you love him so so much or the other way ard... must play hard to get ALWAYS (he takes u for granted after awhile)

6) guys should understand ger's thoughts and their wants (be a sensitive new aged guy)

7) guys depreciate gerfriends after bedding them, gers appreciates boyfriends after bedding them (Mars vs Venus logic)

8) guys shouldn't command gerfriends to do this or do that... must have leeway for gerfriends P.O.V (no MCP behaviour)

blah... this is not all that the show teaches but i can only grabst so much... stupid chim storyline... so hard to catch the plot but perhaps that's wad makes it interesting and viewable... i suppose...